It's nice to hear nothing but your lover's breath against the backdrop of the evening or early morning.
It's peaceful to lie in someone's arms in the dark with great music or even the low buzz of the TV (although that tends to distract me) in the background.
When I just throw it all out the window and dismiss it as "crazy," it makes it easier to deal.
Alcohol should be introduced into the relationship slowly, but if a drink or two takes the edge off, and wine adds romance it's fine. But the one thing that should never happen is excessive application: too much, too many colors, or if it's just a botched attempt at a good makeup technique.
Seems like as time goes by, makeup makes like the earth and erodes and changes with weathering.
We hate when you try too hard to be one of the guys. My solution is to try to get a place by the beach and do it out on the porch where you can see and hear the waves: Sex at the beach, but not on the beach. Sometimes, I just act like they have no chance, even though I might like them.
It's pretty lame that my buddies and I invent words and languages and then giggle over them like schoolchildren. I openly flirt with other girls in front of them, and talk about how hot other girls are in front of them.
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